Monday, October 18, 2010

I am an Ex Boyfriend Wanting to Get Back Together. What can I say to get my girlfriend to call me back?

Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are

* Curiosity and
* Self Interest

When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work Magic

Let's look at what you can say that works almost EVERY TIME.

In a friendly tone:

"Hi Cindy. It's John. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person."

Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?

Cindy will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?" "What does he appreciate?" he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message.

Now...

Before you call you need to do the "Set Up"...which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate.

It can be any small thing...but needs to be credible and you need to feel genuine appreciation for this gesture that your ex did or that something he/she said.

To get more advice that really works on getting back an ex, click here: Magic of Making Up

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