I am an Ex Boyfriend Wanting to Get Back Together. What can I do to get my ex girlfriend back?

Many guys start thinking and philosophizing about everything that could have been done differently when they are separated from their girlfriend. Are you one of these guys who is:

* planning to write an apology letter? or
* thinking up another plan to score your relationship back?

This tends to be a dead end for one reason above all else:

Because you can never really tell what the real reasons were behind a breakup (unless you did something stupid like cheat on her or abused her, in which case you don`t deserve to get her back).

Women become emotional and sometimes they do not even know what led to the break up at hand and they may not know what is making them feel the way they do. In many circumstances it can be harmful to lose all your energy trying to figure out what went wrong.

Put your energy into something else. Go out, make friends, spend time in nature, have fun, network, and forget about women in general.

Give yourself a couple of months and make positive changes in your life. Take some time away from your ex and it will work wonders and allow you to make gradual changes in your life. After a few months, you may have a much better idea of how you want to proceed with your ex.

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