How To Win Your Love Back And Keep Him This Time

by: By Sophia Rodriguez

If you are wondering how to win your love back and keep him this time, you are probably the one who got dumped recently.

If your ex left you, there are certain steps that you need to take if you plan on winning back his love.

The first thing you need to do to win your ex back is to take time for yourself to clear your head, pamper yourself and start the healing process. Yes, this means no contact at all with your ex love and I`m not saying it will be easy but this step is absolutely essential.

Don`t be one of those ladies that calls, texts and facebooks their ex frantically begging for them to take her back. This Never Works!

Ex boyfriends and husbands do not feel attracted to desperate, weak women and this is exactly how you will appear to him if you are constantly hassling him to take you back. You will need to back away from your ex and create some distance between you two.

This fresh breakup time is the ideal opportunity for you to focus on yourself. Socializing with friends and family and finding different interests or going back to interests you used to have but abandoned is a great idea.

Try to have fun with new and old friends. You need to get your mind off your ex for the time being to avoid depression and excessive sadness. Remember, this is all for the best and for the ultimate goal of winning back your ex.

When you start feeling a little bit over the shock you had when you first broke up, it is time to start thinking about the part that you played in the breakup of your couple.

While it is very easy to blame your ex for all that has gone wrong in the relationship, deep down you know that it took both of you to contribute to that breakup.

While you are still broken up from your love, reflect on ways that you could get back with your ex. Be honest and true to yourself and own up to any part of the breakup of the relationship that had to do with your actions or inaction.

If you made an error that caused your couple to fall apart, you will need to figure out how you can fix the mistakes you made so that it doesn`t happen again.

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