Sunday, May 29, 2011

How Can You Win Back Your Ex With Reverse Psychology?

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By Sophia Rodriguez

Are you wondering how you can win back your ex with reverse psychology? How difficult can it be? Although it may sound like a complicated strategy, using reverse psychology on your ex may just be the ticket to winning back your ex.

To begin the process of winning back your ex, you need to start by doing nothing at all...remember we are using reverse psychology here! Avoid calling, texting or Facebooking your ex and definitely, do not put yourself in a position where you run into your ex face to face.

Although this strategy may seem like a long shot to getting your ex back, reverse psychology has been proven to be a winning technique.

By demonstrating maturity, self control and independence your ex will be more attracted to you than if you act desperate and contact them non stop even though he or she asked you to stay away.

By avoiding your ex, this will inspire all kinds of thoughts about you in your ex. Your ex will wonder what you are doing and thinking and will think about you with curiosity and interest, which is exactly what you need to stimulate in your ex if you dream of ever getting him or her back.

The next move you need to make when using reverse psychology to get your ex back is to reclaim your singlehood by going out and having fun with your friends or family.

This may be difficult to do if all you want to do is be with your ex but you must restrain yourself from talking to or thinking of your ex. Being social will also give your ex the message that you are dealing well with the breakup and you are fine on your own.

Of course, if your ex finds out about your socializing he or she may become jealous but this is all part of the plan. Since it is only human to want something that is scarce, your ex will feel your absence even more and may be inspired to want to be with you again.

By looking out for yourself and taking the time to heal from your ex, you will be putting the wheels in motion for getting your ex back. Sounds crazy but it works! By focusing on your needs and personal healing without being obsessed with getting back your ex, you will be drawing your ex back to you. To win back your ex with reverse psychology, use these simple tips and you will notice that getting your ex back is not as impossible as you may have originally thought.

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Sunday, May 15, 2011

Steps to Recuperate From A Breakup

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Did you just experience a break up? If you are looking for Steps To Recuperate From A Breakup, I deeply sympathize with your loss and send you positive energy for regaining your strength, independence and the joy of being alive.

Here are steps to help you recuperate from a breakup and to get you closer to inner peace when you think about the relationship. Getting to the point of no resentment, no anger and no bitterness when reflecting upon your ex is a worthy goal. A greater goal is to be at peace with yourself, with your decisions and with your actions regarding your ex.

Steps to Help You Recuperate From A Breakup

1.Get Your Feelings Out in The Open: Find someone you can lean on and talk to her/him as soon as possible. Spill it all out to a best friend, a family member or even a pet will do.

If you keep all your break up emotions bottled up, they are bound to explode later down the line. Get all the crying, bitching and talking about your ex and the breakup out of your system as much as possible; it is part of the healing process.

Another healing process is to write down your feelings in your diary or in a notebook. Writing, like talking, helps to sort out your feelings of anger, betrayal and disbelief.

2.Pamper and Amuse Yourself:

Distract yourself from the breakup while being gentle and kind to yourself. Whether it`s a favorite hobby, food, a movie, a music concert, a sports game, exercise, or a spa day, treating yourself like royalty will help you feel special and loved.

Whatever your release, make sure it's positive and not a depressant like alcohol or drugs, you`ll feel even worst when you come down from your buzz.

Treat yourself with patience, understanding and kindness and you will recover much quicker from a painful break up.

3.Release Your Anger:

It is not healthy to keep anger bottled up inside. Take a kickboxing class, go to the gym or go jogging. Exercise will divert your attention away from your ex and help your body shape up for your next love attention at the same time.

Make a list of all the things that pissed you off about your ex. Write him a letter or make him a video telling him off but don`t mail or give him the video. Burn the letter of video along with any gift, photo or letter that he gave to you.

This symbolic gesture will give you a sense of closure and allow you to start the healing process. If there are any other reminders of him in your house or apartment, round them up and put them in a bag for a friend to take back to him or for you to throw out with the trash.

4.Avoid All Contact With The Ex: It is normal yet unhealthy to seek information about your ex and his/her new life without you. You probably will have the urge to get news about him from mutual friends This doesn't help the break up or recovery process.

Focus on yourself instead for the proper healing you deserve. Constant reminders of your ex only extends the torment. Don`t become a hermit while avoiding him, just do your best to avoid meeting up with him/her and try to isolate yourself from getting any information about him/her until you get used to your new life away from your ex.

4.Move On With Your Life:

To get over a break up, you need to try and move on with your life. After allowing yourself at least a week or two for a proper grieving process including crying, bitching and releasing your anger, it`s time to refocus on your own life.

The more you focus on your own life and develop your own friends and activities, the easier and quicker it will be to get over your ex. Do you have to erase him from your thoughts completely? Of course not, but avoid the obsessive thinking about your ex.

If after a couple of months, you realize you are still in love with your ex, and are still clinging to the hope that you will get back together, you will want to first test him/her to see if your ex is still interested in you. If you get back together, great; but if not, you should be prepared to continue moving forward with your life.

Did you follow the tips on healing yourself after a breakup and you STILL constantly think of your ex? Do you really want him/her back? Is it best for you to get your ex back or would you be better off on your own? If you can`t forget your ex and want to make up with her/him, read about the Complete System To Getting An Ex Back, Get The Magic of Making Up
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Sunday, May 1, 2011

I Want My Husband Back ASAP

I want my husband back ASAP is the complaint of many women whose true love is slipping away from their hands. Is your marriage falling apart? Do you want the love of your husband back?

It can happen to anyone. With busy lives and multiple responsibilities and engagements, marriages can fall to pieces before your very eyes without even realizing why and how it even happened.

If you are one of the many unfortunate ones whose marriage is crumbling, there are things you can do to get your husband back.

First you must evaluate if it is for the best to get back together with your ex. Sometimes we miss the security, excitement and comfort of the ex sweetie, however, is it really in everyone`s best interest for you two to get back together?

If no, well, perhaps it`s time to move on and recreate yourself as the strong independent woman that you are. If it is in everyone`s interest for you two to get back together, then you must pursue your reflections upon what went wrong in the first place.

The first thing you need to know is that the breakup was mutual regardless of who broke up with who. When a relationship falls apart it is usually a long, drawn out process. Breakups aren`t created over night! He wasn`t all at fault and you are not all at fault.

You both have equal responsibility in the separation. (Unless one of you cheated or betrayed the other, in which case it was definitely that person`s fault!) All it may take to glue your relationship back together is a few simple changes in how you are within your marriage.

I`m sure you`ve heard the saying: It takes two to tango! Both partners need to want to make the relationship work. The weight of the success of the relationship does not lie in either of your shoulders.

All you can do is your personal best at being at your honest and passionate self in order to win your husbad`s love back. Of course, he would have to be doing his best too for this to work at all.

Analyze what makes you tick as a person and make sure it fits in well with your partner`s priorities and values. If you truly love each other, you will surely find common ground by discussing your dreams and goals together.

If you want your husband back, you will need to create events that you can both participate in and that will bring mutual joy. Try to make these events spontaneous as if he thought of them. Enjoying fun times together is a great way to ease back into a peaceful and enjoyable relationship.

Let him know how much you think he is a special man and for which reasons and how much you appreciate him. Don`t Go Overboard though!

Sprinkle positive comments throughout the conversations and make him feel good about himself. You can have an even better relationship this time around if you can commit to doing the required work in order to make it work.

Do your best, think positive and repeat to yourself this mantra: My relationship with my husband is even stronger now. We had to go through what we did to make us stronger. I love my husband and he now loves me more than ever before. The best in life is still to come.

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